Wednesday, April 28, 2010

A VERY GOOD DAY, FUNERAL OR NOT

This morning the first words I  heard were Halle's sweet voice saying, "Happy Birthday."  From then on that was the phrase I heard most.  I was lucky enough to have these darling, sleepy children that I love engulf me and start my day with warmth and love.  Could there be anything better?


Lacey took the last picture, then her mom came home from working out and took this one which included Lacey.


To top my day off I got the sweetest card Halle had created for me by herself.  She must have spent a lot of  time on it and it really made me feel loved.  I was so excited! Then the children helped me open my presents.  I received two books I  have been wishing for for months.


But all good things must end.  The children went to school and Lindsey took me to meet up with Rosemary, Marti, Spence, and Dad to go to Orem for Sharee Paulson's funeral.  I hardly noticed the cold and snowy day it started out to be because of the warmth I felt from being with my family that I love and never get enough of seeing. 

It was a very beautiful and spiritual funeral.  Sharee's family will really miss her and all her love.  It just doesn't seem fair that they should lose both parents so young in three years.  I know Sharee and George are so happy to be together.  I was also impressed with how much Sharee's ward loved her even though she had been there about two years.  The primary children she taught said she had been their favorite teacher.  She was a kind and very generous person who was totally devoted to her family.  She will be very missed.

Funerals aren't often a great place to take lots of pictures.  Luckily, the snow and rain stopped when we drove into Salt Lake for the graveside ceremony.  I snapped a picture of  Spence, Marti, Rosemary and Dad as we left the graveside.



The Paulson family hosted a lunch at Little America which was wonderful, but the Arizona family had to catch a plane at 5:00, so we just had time to satisfy our hunger and run off.  I only got a chance to take a picture of the Durhams who attended the lunch and sat at our table and the adjoining one.

Above are Margie, Mary and Mark, and Mark and Nancy


Above here are Louise (Cole is off talking to someone else), Maren and Paul, Dennis and Janie, and Janet (I don't know where Kelly was at the moment.)


Rosemary and Spence say goodby to Carol, Sharee's daughter, as we leave.

It is difficult to only see all these cousins at sad things.  The ones who help us gather and stay tied together seem to be passing from this life.  We  need to have a reunion even without parental arm twisting.  These are some of the finest people I will ever know and I want very much to still  have them in our lives.

After a stop at the airport, Rosemary took me to Sunny's.  One by one as the children saw me they called out "Happy Birthday, Nana!" and gave me big hugs.  There was no adult coaching them either.  Charlie was the first one to say it when I came in the house.  A hug from Gracie took a little coaxing, but after Sam and Charlie jumped into my arms, she followed suit and snuggled for a minute.

Then in a whirlwind we were off to Riley's dance recital dress rehearsal. 

Below she is waiting her turn to perform.  Isn't she cute?


The pictures I took of her dance number just didn't turn out because of the low light and distance, not to mention the movement.  But when it was over Riley was more than happy to pose for me below.


A dash back home for a quick bite of Sunny's spaghetti and meatballs, and we were off again to see Riley's soccer game.    She is such a ham, she strikes the funniest poses when you point the camera her way.


When she is out on the field she is the one most often in control of the ball.  But since they only play three at a time and switch them out frequently, the other team also got to score some goals.  Riley scored 3.  As soon as she was taken out of the game, she would run to one end and chase around 4 or 5 lingering boys.  She is tireless.


A little fancy footwook.


A common sight at Sunny's:  three kids on her lap, in her arms, gathered near her. 


Jessica  lights the candles as the boys supervise.

After the game, it was birthday cake time.  Sunny had gone above and beyond in making my favorite chocolate cake with chocolate frosting.  This was a chocolate/chocolate chip cake and on top of the rich dark chocolate icing she had yummy chocolate  mousse.


Sage also gets into the candle lighting business.  Lucky the candles were only symbolic of my many years and not numerically accurate.


So  fun to have these great helpers, Sam and Charlie, to blow out the candles.  Unfortunately, Gracie got squeezed out, but doesn't yet know she should be upset.


Now to the best part:  eating that delicious cake, which was done with great intensity.


Gracie loves this Smith's special Tinkerbell nightgown.


Can you believe I captured this darling picture of Gracie?  Maybe a little of Lindsay is rubbing off on me.


I don't know where Sam was the rest of the night, but I sure got a couple of cute picts of Charlie.


Tristan grows two inches each time I see him.  He is trying to decide how to style his hair when he gets it cut.  He has such thick nice hair, he could do almost anything and it would be great.


This is Sage's spot most of the evening.  He works hard in his spare moments at school to get his homework done before he comes home. 


Jessie vanished to the basement all night and I didn't get any additional pictures of her. Alex had been on a 25 mile bike ride with her dad.  But she came home with great enthusiasm for the day's activities.  I was so glad to see her.  We talked for a while, then it was off to do homework and I was off to download pictures and blog until late into the night. 


I sure wish I had more time to spend with these families up in Utah.  I am glad to see them for a few minutes anyway.  We have to  plan a longer visit soon.

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

FOR YOU PAPA

I am in Utah today to attend my Aunt Sharee Paulson's funeral. I know Alan really wishes he were here to see his grandchildren he misses so much. Here are a few picture of the Toblers I took so he could see them, too. (I wish I had the knack for photography Lindsay has acquired.)


After Lindsey picked me up from the airport, we made numerous stops along the way to prepare her to go to Women's Conference and still handle many commitments. After the while the kids said,"We don't want to go in to any more stores!" So I would sit in the car with them while Lindsey ran into the store. Before long the songs, food and games also got boring. They wanted out of the seats.

Here Kate had not yet gotten her way.

At least she is out of the seat.

Two crazy kids!


Lindsey took Lacey for her first experience in the temple doing baptisms for the dead. At home we played house, babies, going to the doctor (Jack had four vaccination shots that morning in his legs in preparation for starting kindergarten this fall) and...


...played a little Super Mario Brothers for Wii.


About that time Halle arrived home from school.


Then Lindsey and Lacey came back from the temple on a high. Lacey had a very special experience the temple. Besides the normal a sister had asked her to be proxy for her two ancestors so she could take them and do the other work. She even got to do the font side confirmations, which is a rare privilege.

Halle gave me a preview of the pieces she is playing for her upcoming recital. I was amazed at how good she had gotten in such a short time taking lessons!

Lacey also played me her recital pieces. She has been taking lessons much longer and her renditions were very beautiful and more complicated than I had heard her do before. I was so proud of her.

Then I gave Lacey her birthday presents. Of course, someone else got to do the unwrapping.

Lacey just cared that they were open and is such a loving big sister.

A quick modeling of the new clothes. I think she liked them.

Monday, April 26, 2010

I Hope You Don't Expect Much

If I had thought to take my camera out of my purse tonight, I would have had a ready made blog.  Sally Lewis, Marilyn Hoggan and Marsha Parks took Sheryl Brown and me to dinner tonight at the new Elephant Bar for our birthdays.  Being with them reminds me that I do have friends.  These friends have been with me through all my struggles and they still love me and I really love them.  They know my children and I know theirs.  We will always be friends and support each other when we can.  I miss seeing them.  I know I can do something about it.  I just have to do it. But we were so busy updating each other on our families and lives that I forgot to pull out the camera.  Next time.

Here are a few pictures I did remember to take:


Does this look familiar?  How many helpers does it take to blow out these candles?


How many days do we celebrate JR's birthday?



Do you think the marines and young adults enjoyed celebrating JR's birthday?  They'll do anything for a homecooked dinner--Hawaian chicken and orange rolls.



Early morning flower planting.  All those flowers I bought last week had to get in the ground before I leave tomorrow for SLC and Aunt Sharee's funeral.


In N' Out opened in Utah.  Cafe Rio opened in Lake Forest just across the freeway from work.  Every time we go we see many old friends from around the valley who are church members.  Today we ran into Kim Gardner with her son Tyler.  She told me how she had run into Ashley and Todd when they attended church in Boston.  Imagine that!  Beth and Dave Green were there too.  A real gathering place.

Today I am especially thankful for my family and my friends.

Sunday, April 25, 2010

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, LACEY!!

Lacey turned 12 today.  Twelve is a big birthday!  Young Women, Middle School.  More responsibility. We are so proud of who Lacey is becoming.
 
This is baby Lacey.  Isn't she darling? Can you believe she is real?


Lacey and her mom.  Beautiful!

Here are some things I love about Lacey:

1.  She has always been tuned in to the spirit. Her mom tells me that the thing she wanted the most when she turned 12 was a limited use temple recommend so she could go frequently and do baptisms for the dead.  Even though it was Stake Conference today, because she had been planning ahead, her bishop met her at the church and issued her the recommend and plans a Tuesday visit to the temple. 


Lacey was so prepared to be baptised.  This was a great day.

2.  Lacey really loves to participate fully in all that is happening around her. She has had gymnastics lessons and learned to do back flips, volleyball, basketball and surfing lessons to name just a few. She is very coordinated and a natural athlete. She puts a lot of effort in to excelling at so many things.

Volleyball with her friend Kennadee.



At surf lessons last summer

3.  Lacey has a lot of unique personality and has a lot of fun expressing it.
How can two such darling girls make their faces look like this?


The three cousins are so cool!


4.  Lacey has many friends and is a friend to many.  She knows how to include others in her circle and is sensitive to those who might feel left out. She can get along with many people of all ages.


5.  Lacey faces any fears she has and works quickly to overcome them.  She was not happy about going on the X ride at Magic Mountain, but faced that fear, rode it, and was less anxious about other scarey rides.  She wasn't sure she was comfortable with horses, but became a pro before long.


6.  Lacey makes Papa and me feel so loved and welcome.  We get lots of attention from her when we come to visit and when she visits us. 

7.  Lacey is a good student.  She tries very hard at school and always excells.  She is usually one of the teachers' favorites because she is so cooperative, helpful and smart.

8.  Lacey has always loved to be on stage.  A trait she did not inherit from her parents.  As a little one she and Bailey would hop on the table or the hearth/stage and sing, dance and perform for us, their adoring family.  She still likes to perform and had a special part in the school play. She was Danny's girl, Louella, in "Bugsy Malone."

Lacey as Louella, looking way too old.



I have many pictures of her cute costumes for Halloween.  Here are a couple:













9.  Lacey is a wonderful help to her mother.  She has learned to work and to help.  She has been doing some babysitting and is very responsible.  That doesn't surprise me because she has loved helping her mom with each of her sisters and brothers as they came along.  She loves her brother and sisters.



With baby Jack and Halle.


10.  Lacey is a happy person who is enthusiastic and positive about all the important parts of life: family, school, church, and extracurricular activities.  She takes direction well and makes the best of every situation.

Saturday, April 24, 2010

JUST A BLOG TO KEEP A COMMITMENT

We started off this day with breakfast at IHOP to celebrate JR's birthday two days ago.


Kayla was cold and Dad's lap was warm.  (It wasn't that cold.)


Candy card joined us too.  Notice the chocolate chip chocolate pancake.


Bailey gets a true close-up. Her dad avoided the camera as much as possilbe.  Jen was putting on a baby shower this morning for someone she visit teaches.


A little swimming and tanning between meals.  Don't you wish you lived in So Cal?


Bailey has invented another weird swimming get-up.


Ethan poured his chocolate milk in the bucket with some water.  What are babies for?